To be honest, I wanted to get your attention with the title of this blog post. I guess it worked if you are reading this now 🙂
Great. Now that we are here I would like to clear something up which is of high importance to me.
The word “mistake” in the blog title is not really right. I rather try to see things as experiences and experiments instead of mistakes. This gives more space and helps us to go out and try more things because we are not so afraid of failure. By doing so I am convinced we will not only have more fun in the end but also try out more and be more courageous. And walking the Camino de Santiago is about being courageous and trying something new without knowing how it will be like.
The first mistake most beginners on the Camino make is not allowing themselves to make more mistakes. In the worst case, they don’t even start their Camino because they might be so afraid of making mistakes. And that’s not what we want, right?
Another point but similar to the one above is – in my experience, it is really helpful to lower your expectations of what you might gain out of walking the Camino de Santiago. Of course, it is understandable if you have a goal. Let’s say you want to walk the Camino because you feel stuck in your life, job, or relationship. BUT it is not helpful to expect that you are going to have all the problems resolved after walking 5 weeks on the Camino.
My experience is you (eventually) gain more if you want less. If you start your Camino and can just be open to everything that happens without knowing it all before; without expecting too much, you will probably have a wonderful journey with a lot of insights. To sum this up: The second mistake is to actually expect too much and not be open to what really happens on your Camino.
Walk at Your Own Pace
Another very important point you may want to keep in mind is to walk your own rhythm. Everybody is different and every day is different. Your Camino friends may be fitter or have a different physical or mental constitution. To become happy on the Camino it is helpful and necessary to learn to walk at your own pace and speed. Be aware of not stepping into the trap of comparing your pace and daily distance to other pilgrims. Don’t try to keep up with someone that has a different walking rhythm than you. This will turn out to be really exhausting for you – and maybe also for your friend.
Instead, try to avoid comparison, learn to let go and focus on yourself. If someone else is faster/slower you may separate and agree to meet again in the albergue in the evening or in the next town for example. In my experience, this is quite challenging even for pilgrims with some experience. Because for most of us letting go is difficult and will bring up fears. But there is a chance to experience that we can let go and meet again later on.
On the Camino, we are given the chance to learn that separation and connection can go hand in hand. We don’t have to give up ourselves in order to keep in touch with someone. What a great lesson I learned on my Caminos!
Mistake number four: many beginners start too fast.
My experience here is that it is more helpful to start small and build it up. Keep in mind that you may not be used to carrying so much stuff in your bag for many hours. Your body may not be familiar with walking 20-30 km a day. So give it some time especially in the first days of your Camino and you will be fine. Later you may increase your daily distances but depending on the Camino and your personal fitness level a distance of 20 km may be really enough for the first days on the Camino
My last point is something you may already have stumbled upon:
A mistake most beginners may is that they take too much stuff on their Camino. There is a rule that may help you with getting your bag packed and prepared for the Camino. The rule says: The maximum weight you should carry on your back is 10 % of your body weight. Stick to this rule when you pack your stuff. Keep in mind that you can buy most gear on the Camino if it turns out that there is something essential missing. (See Camino Packing List)
Try to learn the minimalistic lifestyle. Reduce as much weight as you can. Do it again and again until the weight of your packed bag is really less than 10 % of your body weight, and it is likely that you will weigh less at the end of the Camino. Now you are ready to start and walk your own individual Camino. Try to allow yourself to have as many experiences as possible and have fun!
Buen Camino, Christoph Erkens
The author: Christoph Erkens walked the Spanish and Portuguese Camino in 2014 after quitting his job. This experience changed his life and made him start a blog on the Camino in german language which is now one of the most popular websites on the Camino in his home country. Recently he published his first English speaking online course for Camino-beginners on the platform udemy.com. With this link and the code “change” you get 25 % off the course price.